20 Years of Playing Guitar to Realize the Importance of Silence


After 20 years of playing guitar, there was a powerful realization that completely transformed how I approached music. I had been focusing so intensely on the notes, the chords, the scales, and the technical aspects of playing that I failed to embrace the most crucial aspect of music: silence.

It’s easy to get wrapped up in the technicalities of guitar playing—how fast you can play, how complex your solos are, and how many chords you can master. But over the years, I discovered that I was only utilizing half of the instrument. The other half, which took me two decades to fully understand, is the space between the notes—the silence. Silence adds dynamics, tension, emotion, and a whole host of energy that can't be achieved by playing non-stop.

Here’s why learning to incorporate silence into your guitar playing is so important and how it can elevate your music to the next level.

1. Silence Creates Dynamics

When playing the guitar, it’s natural to focus on keeping the music going with constant sound. However, by adding pauses and moments of silence, you introduce a dramatic shift in the dynamics of your playing. These dynamics—alternating between loud and soft, fast and slow, played and unplayed—give the listener’s ears a chance to breathe and allow for emotional highs and lows that fully engage them.

Imagine a guitar solo that’s a wall of continuous notes—while impressive technically, it can easily become tiring to the listener. On the other hand, a solo that includes intentional breaks, leaving space between phrases, is likely to create more anticipation and tension. Silence in these moments lets the notes that follow carry more emotional weight.

How to Add Dynamics with Silence:

  • Incorporate pauses between phrases in your solos. Let one phrase resolve before starting the next.
  • Play with volume dynamics—use softer notes followed by silence, then build up to a louder section.
  • Think about rhythmic variation: where can a break enhance the rhythm instead of a continuous flow of sound?

Listening to guitarists like David Gilmour or B.B. King, you can hear how they use silence masterfully to create emotional swells and moments of tension that wouldn’t exist in a barrage of notes.


2. Silence Builds Tension

In music, tension and release are what keep listeners hooked. When you play, your goal is to create anticipation that resolves, drawing the listener in and keeping them engaged. Silence is one of the most effective ways to build tension. It works because it goes against the listener's expectation; when they expect a note but hear silence instead, their anticipation grows, making the moment when the next note is played all the more powerful.

Using Silence to Build Tension:

  • Delay resolutions in your chord progressions or solos by pausing before the resolving note. This brief moment of silence will make the resolution even more satisfying.
  • Use silence to break up a fast passage. After a flurry of notes, stop playing briefly—this creates tension and a sense of suspense, and the next phrase will land with more impact.
  • Experiment with rests. Strategic rests in your rhythm playing can change the entire mood of a riff or progression.

Take Led Zeppelin's "Dazed and Confused" as an example. Jimmy Page uses silence to break up the heavy guitar riff, letting each section breathe before crashing into the next wave of sound, creating an undeniable build in tension throughout the song.


3. Silence Adds Emotion

Silence can also be used to inject a deep sense of emotion into your playing. Think of a heartfelt ballad—it's not the barrage of notes that conveys emotion, but the space between the notes, where the listener can truly feel the weight of the music. Silence allows the listener to reflect on the sound they’ve just heard, making the music more impactful.

How to Use Silence for Emotional Impact:

  • Play fewer notes and focus on the tone and expression of each one. Adding silence between notes allows each sound to resonate emotionally.
  • In slower, more emotional sections, add longer pauses between chords or phrases. This can heighten the emotion and make the song feel more intimate.
  • Think about how silence can be used to evoke different feelings—pauses can create a sense of longing, melancholy, or contemplation.

An excellent example of using silence for emotional effect is in Jeff Buckley’s version of "Hallelujah". The sparse use of notes, combined with the moments of near silence between them, allows the listener to feel the raw emotion of the performance.


4. Silence Enhances Energy and Power

It may seem counterintuitive, but silence can actually make a piece of music feel more energetic and powerful. When you incorporate pauses or rests, the music that follows those moments of silence has the potential to hit harder. It’s the contrast between sound and silence that gives the following sections more punch.

In fast, high-energy playing, constantly keeping the intensity up can overwhelm the listener. By using short breaks or rests, you can make the energetic parts stand out even more.

Using Silence to Enhance Power:

  • Pause before a big chord or powerful riff. This creates an explosive feel when the sound finally hits.
  • During a high-energy solo, take a brief pause between sections to let the audience catch their breath. The next part of the solo will feel even more intense.
  • When playing rhythm guitar, try muting the strings in between chords to create a sharp contrast between the muted silence and the chord hits.

For example, The Police's "Message in a Bottle" uses breaks between the rhythmic chords, making the accented notes stand out more, resulting in a powerful yet simple riff that commands attention.


5. Silence as Part of Your Musical Vocabulary

When you play guitar, you're engaging in a conversation—sometimes with the other musicians and sometimes with the listener. In any conversation, silence plays a key role. It allows for reflection, adds weight to words (or notes), and gives the interaction depth. Incorporating silence into your playing is akin to learning a new language; it broadens your musical vocabulary and allows you to express ideas you couldn’t convey with notes alone.

Using Silence to Communicate:

  • Think of silence as part of the phrase rather than the absence of it. Just like a comma in a sentence, a moment of silence can add clarity and intention to your musical ideas.
  • Practice leaving space in your playing. Even if it feels uncomfortable at first, start by playing a line and then stopping to leave a brief pause before continuing. It will change how you hear and feel the music.

Conclusion: The Importance of Silence in Guitar Playing

It took me 20 years of playing guitar to fully appreciate the importance of silence. While the technical side of guitar playing is crucial, silence is what transforms sound into music. It adds tension, enhances dynamics, communicates emotion, and brings power to your playing in ways that endless notes cannot.

So the next time you pick up your guitar, don’t just focus on what you're playing—focus on what you're not playing. Embrace silence, and see how it elevates your guitar playing to the next level.